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OK, here's my story.
In July '99 I went off bcp's,
and then proceeded to go the following 7
months without Oing or getting AF even once.
On President's Day 2000 my
favorite Aunt passed away due to liver cancer,
and while we were up in
Canada for her funeral, I suddenly O'd.
DH and I were pleased that it
looked like my cycles were getting back
on track, but we were sad that
we'd missed the window of opportunity
for that O, since we only BD'd 5
days before O, and then not again until
quite a while after O (I wasn't
in the mood for a while after my Aunt died).
Two weeks after I O'd I
went to see my doctor who confirmed
(via serum progesterone level) that
I had, in fact, O'd, but didn't do an
hCG test since I assured her I
could not possibly be PG.
Another week went by and still no sign of AF,
even though my doctor had
assured me that I had O'd and I would get AF.
I was now 21dpo and convinced that
something serious was wrong with me.
I posted a question on inciid.org's medical board,
and Dr. Lee responded that I should take
an HPT and if it came back negative
I should call my doctor. So that
day (March 14th, which also happened
to be my husband's birthday!), I
went home and took a CVS HPT.
To my shock the second line appeared
after 10 seconds. It actually appeared
before the control line did, so
I initially thought the test line was
the control line, but when the
control line started to develop
in the smaller window, I suddenly
realized what was happening.
After 7 months of no O and no AF, DH and I
had started to think I would never get PG.
I was completely unprepared
for a + HPT. I started shaking like a leaf,
sobbing, and just generally
getting hysterical. I started talking to myself,
and then to the test
stick ("What's going on?
Please be true, please be true!").
Luckily the test stick never responded.
Then I grabbed both my dogs, threw them
in the car and drove to the drugstore,
where I spent $40 on another 4
HPT's (CVS 2 sticks, e.p.t., and FactPlus).
I came home but I didn't have to pee again yet,
so I spent an agonizing half hour posting to the
TTC board asking for advice, doing dishes,
and just generally trying to
make time pass. Eventually I was able to
squeeze one lone ounce of pee
out into a jam jar, and then dip
all the test sticks into it.
All of the sticks came out ++!
I was floored.
DH wasn't due home for another hour,
so I posted to the TTC board again,
and then I wrote a card for him saying
"Happy Birthday from Gracie and ?
EDD 11-16-00", and I put all the HPT's
in a little gift bag for him.
When he got home I gave him the card,
but he had no idea what it meant,
so I just started crying and blurted out "I'm PG!".
He was shocked, but thrilled!
Anyway, details are as follows:
I stopped Vitex a few days before I O'd
because it was giving me abdominal pain.
I did continue taking Red Raspberry Leaves,
which are supposed to lengthen the luteal phase and
help build up the lining.
I also took B-Complex 50, a multivitamin,
and 400IU of Vitamin E.
I did not lie with my hips up after BDing,
since I didn't know I was about to O,
and we used K-Y, which is supposed to be a
big no-no. I was temping, and my temps
did go triphasic after O (from 98.2-98.4 to 98.7-99.1),
but I just thought my bedroom must be too hot.
Other than that I had no symptoms other than
no AF - no sore bbs, no nausea, no fatigue,
no blue veins, no frequent urination,
no implantation spotting, etc, etc.
I did have some mild cramping, but I
thought that was a sure sign AF was on her way.
I am now 6 weeks PG, and I still have hardly
any symptoms, just some very mild fullness in my
bbs, and my hCG levels have been tested
and they are right on track for
my due date (at 5 weeks my hCG level was 4,623 mIU!).
I truly believe that this baby was a gift
from God and from my Aunt Jane
who is up there with Him. I was heartbroken
when I lost her, but now I
am just filled with joy, because I feel like
I have this special gift
from her inside me. If this baby
is a little girl DH and I are
definitely going to name her Jane.
Good luck to all of the TTCers out there.
I'm sure your little miracles
are just around the corner.
Thank you all so much for your support
through the loooong months of anovulation,
and the terrible doctor's
appt with that OB/GYN who thought
I shouldn't be upset about not Oing
once in 7 months.
Good luck to all of you and
++++++++++ thoughts!
Love,
Gracie
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