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--- Mindy
Subject: Success story !
Date: Thu, 24 Feb 2000 17:27:06 -0500
Hello Everyone !
2/24/2000 Conceived # 1 first round chlomid 50mg / IUI
I am so excited to share that I am officially
pregnant ! I hope that I can be a source of
inspiration to all couples TTC, as I am living proof
that by trusting in God and yourself that you can
succeed. I was pregnant 5 years ago but miscarried
- it was by accident as I did not think I could get
pregnant. My boyfriend ( now husband ) and I were
not ready for a family so it worked out for the
best. I immediately went on BC and went off 10/97.
At first we did were careful but after about 6 mos
we tried to get pg, but it didn't "just happen" like
it did before. I took OPK occasionally but really
did not follow them correctly. I started reading
and learning about mucus, and pretty much relied on
my mucus every month which was pretty good. Still
nothing happened. I started to believe we may have
fertility issues about a year later - 10/98. DH and
I had a consultation with a RE but did nothing
because - don't laugh - but a very reliable psychic
told me that I would be pg within a couple of mos.
So, after several more mos and no pg, I became very
frustrated and began to believe that we needed to
take some sort of action. In Sept. 99', I took a HPT
and received a +, that evening we DTD and I felt
myself ovulate shortly after - so of course I knew
this was the month ! When the ugly AF arrived
exactly 14 days later, I had a mini break-down. I
was so depressed unable to think of nothing else !
I went back to the psychic and she again told me I
would conceive within 6 mos, but I needed to cut
down on my drinking. (DH and I like to party !). I
did not cut out my drinking but I did go back to the
RE, had scheduled a HSG in 10/97, my tubes looked
clear ! DH followed with 3 SA's in Nov/Dec 99. The
first was terrible ( he only abstained for 1 1/2)
The second was excellent ( he abstained 7 days ) and
the third was very good with 90 million, good
motility and lots living ( 3 days abstinence, which
is good for accurate reading) ! We had the little
guys frozen because DH travels quite a bit and I was
tired of missing opportunities. We made it through
the holidays and decided to get aggressive shortly
after. The Dr thought I was ovulating, but I felt I
may be missing ovulation - I had irregular periods
from 30-44 days, so I felt I might not be dropping
the eggs each and every month. I started my first
round of chlomid 50mg in Jan 2000 days 5-9, I began
testing OPK days 11-18 but did not get a surge ! My
RE recommended that I have an ultrasound to see if I
had any ripe follicles present, well to my surprise
I had 2 very ripe follicles ready to drop any day.
I felt I could not really trust the OPK so the RE
recommended that I get a shot to induce ovulation
within 36 hours ( I forget the name but it is not
expensive, around $50.00). I had the shot, came
back the next day and had an IUI with DH's frozen
sperm. I was told "good luck" and to go home and
wait 14 LONG days and if AF did not arrive to call
for PG blood test. Well, AF is always late so I do
not trust the 14 day rule - At 15 days past IUI AF
had not arrived so I decided to take HPT, using the
Aimstick from the TTC store. I didnt believe I was
PG, but I did get my first +++. I could not believe
it, I took another aimstick test 1 hour later (after
drinking a huge glass of OJ) and got a negative ?
That's when I thought God was playing a cruel trick
, so I waited a very long 24 hours to retest ! I
got another ++++ ! I am 3 weeks today, after an
official blood test from RE. I am living proof that
you can succeed on your first round of chlomid at 50
mg. What I did different: I did stop drinking
alcohol ( not an easy task), began drinking green
tea with honey during entire cycle beginning first
day of AF through O. I took robitussin cough drops
every day, prenatals and baby aspirin. Above all, I
did a lot of meditating and visualized the little
egg and spermie meeting. I am a very spiritual
person, so I also keep a rose quartz crystal and
fertility oil which I rub on my tummy. You can get
these and other herbs at any metaphysical store. I
believe that I helped God along, that I eventually
would have conceived but pushed it along a little.
I am 36 and did not want to waist anymore time. I
wish you all the best and believe in yourself. I
have been very obsessed in the last couple of
months, reading everything in sight, using the TTC
site for everything etc. I am forever grateful to
Momma Kath and all of the wonderful women on this site.
Best of Luck +++++++ {HUGS & DUST}
Mindy
:o)
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