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Assalamualaikum all. I came across this board in my midst of finding solace after months of TTC. I was somehow, comforted, to know that there are so many Muslims, feeling the way I feel, after being disappointed one month after another. Yes, there were times, i feel that Allah is really testing me and I too, like a few of you, have felt that why the kafirs are able to have such bountiful babies, and why, me who is trying very hard to get Allah's grace, has to be helped in the most natural event. Dear all, Ive finally come to realize that indeed, all that happens to us is by Allah's will. Simply leave everything to Him. And yes, there is a reason to everything. Recently, Ive had my blood test checked to see if there's anything that is possibly wrong in me. Ive got high prolactin (a hormone) indicating my very high stress level. Since then, I conclude that my stress roots from the desire and the need to conceive. In the midst, i overlooked that hey, this is God's will and what we can do is to try and try. Ive decided not to go for any more tests as those would only make me feel more stressed, and impede my attempt to conceive. To all, concentrate on our ibadah, our treatment towards our husbands, as perhaps, God is waiting for us to pass His tests. Remember, He is testing our iman as He dearly loves us. And when we are loved, we WILL get our dreams in the most miraculous ways. Relax and be in love, as love is the answer to ALL problems and questions. Have strong faith in Allah, love Him more everyday, and with Love, do the following with much faith. InsyaAllah, He'll grant us our wishes..
Recite the following Dua’a 3 times after every Wajib (obligatory) prayer and insyaAllah you’ll be bestowed with a child by Almighty God. Transliteration: RABBE LA TAZARNI FARDAUN WA ANTA KHAIROOL-WARESEEN “O’ my Lord! Leave me not alone (without an issue) though Thou art the best of heirs!” (21: 89)
Ladies, for you..
Fast 7 days straight with the ni'at of wanting to conceive and getting Allah's grace
Before you break fast, take a glass of water, recite each of the following, 21 times, names of Allah:
Al-Khaliq Al-Baari Al- Musawwir
Ladies, please post any messages to me as i too would like to form a network to seek comfort and solace from Muslims around the world.
Assalamualaikum.
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